tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16172583790636241672024-03-13T00:27:06.960-04:00Tickles and Time OutsTips for parents who want to keep life simple and enjoy the moments with their familiesAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13179651974565227486noreply@blogger.comBlogger459125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1617258379063624167.post-24840999330733789052015-07-10T20:29:00.005-04:002015-07-10T20:38:00.846-04:00Realities of Split Custody<div class="MsoNormal">
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My daughter turns 4 on Sunday and I have to share her. My ex-husband and I have split custody and we
get along well. But the truth is split
custody blows. I don’t want half of my
kids. I want all of them. </div>
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It’s not
natural. </div>
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It’s not supposed to be this
way. </div>
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I only get them for 18 years and
that time is cut in half!? </div>
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It’s not fair. It’s not fucking fair. </div>
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Today, I gathered myself together and buckled her into her car
seat in her Daddy's truck. I watched her drive away and waved as I pretended to be excited and happy. As they drove away for her birthday weekend….I lost
it. This happens often when I send them off for the weekend. Tears rolled down my face and my
heart began aching. The pit in my
stomach was a dull pain of emptiness. So
many parents would give anything for a weekend to themselves yet I would give
anything to have my girls every Monday, Tuesday and every weekend. </div>
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My mind is often filled with questions while
they are gone. What are they doing? What memories are they creating? What if
they are missing me? What if they need me? </div>
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It’s not right. </div>
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I’m a much better
boo boo kisser than their Daddy. What
happens when they wake in the middle of the night? What happens when they need
MY hugs and kisses? Why do they have to suffer because of our mistakes?</div>
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I hate that I’m not going to be there when she wakes up and announces
that she’s 4 on Sunday. I want to make her
that special breakfast that I make<i> <b>just the way she likes it</b></i>. I hate that I wasn’t there when my other
daughter looked under her pillow for her tooth fairy money for the first
time. </div>
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While so many parents go to sleep at night praying for one solid nights sleep, I often cuddle with their blankies wishing I could hold them tight and read Chicka Chika Boom Boom every single night. </div>
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I’m a strong woman I take responsibility for my part of the
divorce but it split custody sucks. </div>
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I will cry…. then I’ll pull myself together and throw myself
into work to numb the pain but the reality is there's no easy way to share your children. I will focus on the quality time and appreciate the fact that they are in my life. I'm a lucky lady but some days, it just doesn't feel that way.</div>
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Barb of <a href="http://alifeinbalance.net/" target="_blank">A Life in Balance</a></h3>
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Mitzi of <a href="http://www.writtenreality.com/" target="_blank">Written Reality</a></h3>
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Katie of <a href="http://momfavorites.com/" target="_blank">Mom Favorites</a></h3>
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<a href="https://www.facebook.com/MomFavorites" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/+KatieHarding/posts" target="_blank">G+</a> | <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/momfaves/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/mom_faves" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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Toni of <a href="http://ticklesandtimeouts.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Tickles and Time Outs</a></h3>
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Jen of <a href="http://makingourlifematter.com/" target="_blank">Making Our Life Matter</a></h3>
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Candi of <a href="http://adayincandiland.com/" target="_blank">A Day in Candiland</a></h3>
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Heather of <a href="http://girlgonemom.com/" target="_blank">Girl Gone Mom</a></h3>
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Megan of <a href="http://www.nepamom.com/" target="_blank">NEPA Mom</a></h3>
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This week's features chosen by Mitzi of <a href="http://writtenreality.com/" target="_blank">Written Reality</a></h3>
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1. <a href="http://www.homemadeinterest.com/2015/03/17/irish-potato-bites/" target="_blank">Irish Potato Bites</a> | Home.Made.Interest.
2. <a href="http://homemakinghacks.com/2015/03/carrot-nail-polish-gift.html" target="_blank">Carrot Nail Polish</a> | Homemaking Hacks
3. <a href="http://www.cuttingtinybites.com/2015/03/simple-spring-necklaces.html" target="_blank">Simple Spring Necklaces</a> | Cutting Tiny Bites
4. <a href="http://www.amittenfullofsavings.com/easter-recipe-white-chocolate-bunny-peeps/" target="_blank">White Chocolate Bunny Peeps</a> | A Mitten Full of Savings
5. <a href="http://www.avisiontoremember.com/2011/03/easter-egg-wreath-tutorial.html" target="_blank">Easter Egg Wreath</a> | A Vision to Remember
6. <a href="http://tenatthetable.com/gardening/10-tips-growing-basil-like-boss/" target="_blank">10 Tips For Growing Basil Like a Boss</a> | Ten at the Table
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Barb of <a href="http://alifeinbalance.net/" target="_blank">A Life in Balance</a></h3>
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<a href="http://facebook.com/A.Life.in.Balance.net">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/+BarbaraHoyer/posts" target="_blank">G+</a> | <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/alifeinbalance_/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="http://instagram.com/babhoyer" target="_blank">Instagram</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/BarbHoyer" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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Mitzi of <a href="http://www.writtenreality.com/" target="_blank">Written Reality</a></h3>
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<a href="https://www.facebook.com/WrittenReality" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/+MitziSmith/posts" target="_blank">G+ </a> | <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/mitzicsmith/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a><a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/+MitziSmith/posts" target="_blank"> | </a><a href="http://instagram.com/mitzicsmith" target="_blank">Instagram</a><a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/+MitziSmith/posts" target="_blank"> | </a><a href="https://twitter.com/mitzicsmith" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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Katie of <a href="http://momfavorites.com/" target="_blank">Mom Favorites</a></h3>
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<a href="https://www.facebook.com/MomFavorites" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/+KatieHarding/posts" target="_blank">G+</a> | <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/momfaves/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/mom_faves" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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Toni of <a href="http://ticklesandtimeouts.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Tickles and Time Outs</a></h3>
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<a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Tickles-and-Time-Outs/181663308514042" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/112816308986609977150/posts" target="_blank">G+</a> | <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/shoretoni/tickles-and-timeouts/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/ticklesandto" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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<strong>Jen of <a href="http://makingourlifematter.com/" target="_blank">Making Our Life Matter</a></strong></h3>
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<a href="https://www.facebook.com/MakingOurLifeMatter2012" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/+JenniferSMakingOurLifeMatter" target="_blank">G+</a> | <a href="http://pinterest.com/molm2011" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="http://twitter.com/JenatMOLM" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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<strong>Candi of <a href="http://adayincandiland.com/" target="_blank">A Day in Candiland</a></strong></h3>
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<strong>Heather of <a href="http://girlgonemom.com/" target="_blank">Girl Gone Mom</a></strong></h3>
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<a href="https://www.facebook.com/GirlGoneMom" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/108949623854983494405/posts" target="_blank">G+</a> | <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/girlgonemom/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/girlgonemom" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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<strong>Megan of <a href="http://www.nepamom.com/" target="_blank">NEPA Mom</a></strong></h3>
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<a href="https://www.facebook.com/NEPAMOM" target="_blank">Facebook</a> |<a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/+MeganGalko/posts" target="_blank"> G+</a> | <a href="http://pinterest.com/nepamom" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/NEPA_MOM" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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Steph of <a href="http://agrandelife.net/" target="_blank">A Grande Life</a></h3>
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<a href="https://www.facebook.com/thestephglover" target="_blank">Facebook</a> |<a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/+StephanieGlover/posts" target="_blank"> G+</a> | <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/TheStephGlover/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/thestephglover" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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<strong>This week's features chosen by Megan of <a href="http://www.nepamom.com/" target="_blank">NEPA Mom</a>.</strong>
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<a href="http://outsidetheboxmom.com/how-to-make-time-for-the-things-you-dont-think-you-have-time-to-do/" target="_blank">How to Make Time for the Things You Don't Think You Have Time to Do</a> | Outside the Box Mom
<a href="http://couponindiva.com/5-ways-to-boost-your-bank-account/" target="_blank">5 Ways to Boost Your Bank Account</a> | Couponin' Diva
<a href="http://www.simplisticallyliving.com/healthy-bunny-treat-cups/" target="_blank">Healthy Bunny Treat Cups</a> | Simplistically Living
<a href="http://cincyshopper.com/easter-bunny-krispie-treats/" target="_blank">Easter Bunny Krispie Treats</a> | Cincy Shopper
<a href="http://bornagainfarmgirl.blogspot.com/2014/04/easter-bunny-tail-dinner-rolls_13.html" target="_blank">Easter Bunny Tail Dinner Rolls</a> | Born Again Farm Girl
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Barb of <a href="http://alifeinbalance.net/" target="_blank">A Life in Balance</a></h3>
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<a href="http://facebook.com/A.Life.in.Balance.net">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/+BarbaraHoyer/posts" target="_blank">G+</a> | <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/alifeinbalance_/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="http://instagram.com/babhoyer" target="_blank">Instagram</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/BarbHoyer" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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Mitzi of <a href="http://www.writtenreality.com/" target="_blank">Written Reality</a></h3>
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<a href="https://www.facebook.com/WrittenReality" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/+MitziSmith/posts" target="_blank">G+ </a> | <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/mitzicsmith/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a><a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/+MitziSmith/posts" target="_blank"> | </a><a href="http://instagram.com/mitzicsmith" target="_blank">Instagram</a><a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/+MitziSmith/posts" target="_blank"> | </a><a href="https://twitter.com/mitzicsmith" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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Katie of <a href="http://momfavorites.com/" target="_blank">Mom Favorites</a></h3>
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<a href="https://www.facebook.com/MomFavorites" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/+KatieHarding/posts" target="_blank">G+</a> | <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/momfaves/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/mom_faves" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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Toni of <a href="http://ticklesandtimeouts.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Tickles and Time Outs</a></h3>
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<a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Tickles-and-Time-Outs/181663308514042" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/112816308986609977150/posts" target="_blank">G+</a> | <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/shoretoni/tickles-and-timeouts/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/ticklesandto" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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Jen of <a href="http://makingourlifematter.com/" target="_blank">Making Our Life Matter</a></h3>
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<a href="https://www.facebook.com/MakingOurLifeMatter2012" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/+JenniferSMakingOurLifeMatter" target="_blank">G+</a> | <a href="http://pinterest.com/molm2011" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="http://twitter.com/JenatMOLM" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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Candi of <a href="http://adayincandiland.com/" target="_blank">A Day in Candiland</a></h3>
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<a href="https://www.facebook.com/adayincandiland" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/+CandiElm/posts" target="_blank">G+</a> | <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/candilandblogs/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/candilandblogs" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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Heather of <a href="http://girlgonemom.com/" target="_blank">Girl Gone Mom</a></h3>
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<a href="https://www.facebook.com/GirlGoneMom" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://plus.google.com/108949623854983494405/posts" target="_blank">G+</a> | <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/girlgonemom/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/girlgonemom" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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Megan of <a href="http://www.nepamom.com/" target="_blank">NEPA Mom</a></h3>
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<a href="https://www.facebook.com/NEPAMOM" target="_blank">Facebook</a> |<a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/+MeganGalko/posts" target="_blank"> G+</a> | <a href="http://pinterest.com/nepamom" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/NEPA_MOM" target="_blank">Twitter</a></div>
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Steph of <a href="http://agrandelife.net/" target="_blank">A Grande Life</a></h3>
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2. <a data-cke-saved-href="http://lettersfromsunnybrook.com/overwhelmed-tips-to-stay-motivated/" href="http://lettersfromsunnybrook.com/overwhelmed-tips-to-stay-motivated/" target="_blank">7</a><a data-cke-saved-href="http://dravenmade.blogspot.com/2015/03/7-indoor-projects-while-waiting-for.html" href="http://dravenmade.blogspot.com/2015/03/7-indoor-projects-while-waiting-for.html" target="_blank"> Indoor Projects While Waiting for Springtime</a> | Draven Made
3. <a data-cke-saved-href="http://liverandomlysimple.com/how-to-make-burlap-nests/" href="http://liverandomlysimple.com/how-to-make-burlap-nests/" target="_blank">S</a><a data-cke-saved-href="http://www.theorganizeddream.com/2014/03/girly-flower-toptiary-tutorial.html" href="http://www.theorganizeddream.com/2014/03/girly-flower-toptiary-tutorial.html" target="_blank">pring Flower Topiary Tutorial</a> | The Organized Dream
4. <a data-cke-saved-href="http://www.bloominghomestead.com/2015/02/st-patricks-day-printable.html" href="http://www.bloominghomestead.com/2015/02/st-patricks-day-printable.html" target="_blank">T</a><a data-cke-saved-href="http://makinmyaptahome.com/2014/08/transformed-treasures-tuesday-no-10.html" href="http://makinmyaptahome.com/2014/08/transformed-treasures-tuesday-no-10.html" target="_blank">ransformed Dresser</a> | Making My Apt. a Home
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6. <a data-cke-saved-href="http://www.amomstake.com/2015/02/easy-key-lime-pie-recipe/" href="http://www.amomstake.com/2015/02/easy-key-lime-pie-recipe/" target="_blank">D</a><a data-cke-saved-href="http://girlgonemom.com/what-to-do-with-all-of-those-greeting-cards/" href="http://girlgonemom.com/what-to-do-with-all-of-those-greeting-cards/" target="_blank">IY Ribbon Board</a> | Girl Gone Mom
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How do you hold yourself accountable?<br />
Accountability is very important to me. I want to hold myself accountable to be an awesome parent, Christian, daughter, sister, girlfriend, and even a great blogger. As a single mother, I often find that I'm the only one that can hold myself accountable (I take that back, my kids will hold me accountable often!) I will sometimes ask a family member (or even the childcare provider) how I can do things better when the going gets tough because I want to grow and do the right thing. <br />
To me, accountability is about integrity.<br />
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It's about getting up at 6am when I can barely drag myself out of bed because I need to get things prepared for my kids.<br />
It's about working out when I feel lazy because my kids deserve a healthy mom and God gave me a body I need to take care of it.<br />
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It's about going to church because it's what I believe is the right thing.<br />
It's about not yelling at my kids even though I'm so exhausted and don't have one ounce of patience left in my body.<br />
It's about getting down on my kids level, looking them in the eye and telling them what I need from them.<br />
It's about being honest with myself about who I really am and what I REALLY need.<br />
It's about surrounding myself with the right people even if it means saying no to someone I love because .<br />
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It's about making that call about a bill that I keep putting off.<br />
It's about making sure I'm on time for things.<br />
It's about getting myself out of bed to write an article that needs to be posted by the end of the week.<br />
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Being accountable is about making all those little decisions on a daily basis that add up to my overall integrity/goals. It's always easy to see what other people could be doing better but how do you look in the mirror and take responsibility for your own actions? Martial arts really helped me learn to hold myself accountable and I wrote about it in this post <a href="https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=1617258379063624167#editor/target=post;postID=6532075683462679469;onPublishedMenu=posts;onClosedMenu=posts;postNum=1;src=postname">Lessons about Self Discipline</a>.<br />
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<b>1. Write a journal. </b> I've learned through challenging times like divorce and lay offs to really listen to my heart. I've asked people for advice that really have no idea about blogging or what's truly deep in my heart. If I barely know what I want or need then how is someone else going to know? Journaling is a great way to uncover some of your truths and develop a friendship with the person that matters most, you. <br />
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<b>2. Ask friends and family. </b> I know this contradicts #1 but hear me out. There are many times when we need to listen to how our actions affect other people and that may mean asking them for their opinion. If you have people in your life that you respect and trust, ask them what you could do differently <br />
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<b>3. Write Goals.</b> After you uncover your truths in your journal, writing goals is what makes things happen. If your goal is to lose weight (for example) I encourage you to write down a plan and start thinking of yourself as a healthier person. Then write out a clear plan for how you are going to make that happen. Personally, I try to complete about 85% of my goals and allow myself some wiggle room for mistakes. <br />
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For me, I know that I'm likely to get depressed and/or sick when my choices are not lining up with my goals and values. I need to know when I put my head on the pillow at night that MOST of my choices are good ones.<br />
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Now it's your turn...how do you hold yourself accountable? I would love to hear your ideas!<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Why do people apologize?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Have you ever shared a problem with someone and they begin saying "I'm soooo sorry" and it makes you feel even worse? Aside from a death of a loved one (or something really traumatic), do people really want to hear an apology when something doesn't go as planned? </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b><i>Do they want to feel like a victim or do they want to feel like someone that can overcome obstacles? </i></b>While it's good to be sympathetic and kind, isn't it often more appropriate to just help them look on the bright side?</span><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Honestly, I believe that apologies should be saved for sincerity, for the times when we really hurt someone. If we're constantly apologizing for every little thing, what happens when we make really big mistakes?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Will people think we are sincere? Also, if we apologize all the time, why are we doing the things we are sorry for ALL the time over and over again? Are you being perceived as a people pleaser that doesn't have boundaries?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">I'm trying to really think before apologizing myself these days. I want to avoid apologizing prematurely. I find that I say "I didn't really mean to say it that way" or "I shouldn't say ____" </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Well, ya know what if you shouldn't...then don't!!</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Throughout my <strike>37</strike> 38 years of life...I have always thought...</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">But now I'm not so sure. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">In the past 2 weeks a few things have happened in the public eye that have really made me think differently. First, Bill Carroll, the head coach of the Seattle Seahawks was scrutinized for 'losing the super bowl' by making the 'worst call in Super Bowl history'. I don't know a whole lot about football but I do know a lot about making mistakes (because I make them a lot). I love the way Bill Carroll handled the situation under such scrutiny. When interviewed, he said,<span style="color: #e69138;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>"I started by getting my mind right to give people perspective so that we can move ahead." </b>I think we could all learn from that when we are wrong....taking the time to really think about what we did and why we did it after we make a mistake (especially if it's a big one).<span style="color: #e69138;"><b> </b> </span>He did not say he was sorry for the incident-<b><i>he said that he made the best decision he could with what he had.</i></b> He took accountability without looking like a failure. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I like that.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Recently, another thing happened in my local area that really made me scratch my head. Our local weather forecasters predicted <b><i>The Blizzard of 2015</i></b> (which barely left a trace of snow across most of the Philadelphia/New York/New Jersey area). <span style="background-color: white; color: #202022; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif; line-height: 22.1px;">Szatkowski, a New York weather forecaster was one of these people that made a 'bad call'. He might be a familiar name to some in the Tri-State area because he was described as one of the "heroes" of Superstorm Sandy for getting predictions about that storm's severity right, and for broadcasting them loudly. He issued a statement after getting this storm wrong saying,</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">"My deepest apologies to many key decision makers and so many members of the general public," he said via Twitter early Tuesday morning. "<span style="color: #202022; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif; line-height: 22.1px; text-align: center;">You made a lot of tough decisions expecting us to get it right, and we didn't. Once again, I'm sorry." </span></span></div>
<span style="background-color: transparent; font-size: large; text-align: center;"><b> While it's good that he took accountability, is he losing his credibility? </b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">While I was researching ideas for this topic, I came across this funny post...<a href="http://www.yourtango.com/2014228544/31-normal-things-parents-shouldnt-have-apologize">31 Normal Things Parents Should NEVER have to Apologize For</a>. I like this post because it keeps things real. Just last night someone apologized to my 3 year old daughter because she was jealous when she didn't get a birthday present (it was her sister's birthday). People often apologize when their kid acts up in public. Maybe they aren't sure if they did the right thing so they just apologize to cover their bases? Maybe they didn't handle the situation well so they really are sorry? Maybe they feel responsible for someone elses' behavior? Whatever the reason is, is it necessary? </span></div>
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Coaches make wrong calls because they are human. </div>
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Meteorologists make bad forecasts because we can't control mother nature.</div>
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Parents make bad choices because<b> parenting is really freaking hard</b>.</div>
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Don't get me wrong, I'm not making excuses for any bad behaviors. However, I think we are often being unrealistic about our expectations from ourselves and others. There are times when we make a really crappy decision that hurts someone close to us and we need to make amends, Michael Hyatt talks about this in his podcast <a href="http://michaelhyatt.com/how-to-botch-an-apology.html">How to Botch an Apology</a> <i><b>There are times when we wish we would have made a different decision but we know that we made the best decision we could with the information and resources we had available to us</b></i>. </div>
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Expectations are a funny thing. I live in a suburb of Philadelphia. Yesterday, meteorologists and media were going crazy about the "Blizzard of 2015". They declared states of emergency in Pennsylvania and New Jersey. FORTUNATELY, the storm missed us! However, there were a lot of unhappy people. My friends on Facebook were posting "How can my daycare be closed?!" Another person said, "Meteorologists know nothing..my kids are so disappointed!" and it went on and on.<br />
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There are 2 things that are going through my head about this...<br />
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First...<b>how often in life are we disappointed because our expectations aren't being met? </b> I'm not someone that says that you shouldn't have expectations (because I believe expectations are a good thing...a great thing actually)<br />
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While high expectations are a good thing, we need to remember that shit happens and things don't always go as planned. Having unrealistic expectations is going to cause you stress, heartache, and disappointment. When we put our fate in the hands of meteorologists, for example, we may be disappointed. How often do you put your fate in other people's hands? How can you become more resilient? Are your expectations realistic? Do we expect meteorologists to give us an accurate weather forecast because that's their job? Yes, but until we try to figure out weather patterns on our own, who are we to judge how well they can predict weather patterns successfully? <b> If you don't like what they have to say, then don't watch the weather! </b>Otherwise, be happy that they at least give us an idea of what to expect.<br />
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The second thing that goes through my mind about this topic is resiliency...I believe that the most successful people are the most resilient. These people DO have expectations (they use contracts and hold people accountable) but when things don't go exactly as planned (such as mother nature) they aren't stressed out or heart broken about it. They have a sense of humor and roll with the punches. Last year, my kids school district did a hilarious YouTube video about the crazy winter we were having. I thought this was a brilliant way to make light of a frustrating situation. <b><i>Not only is humor a great way to cope with these frustrations but gratitude will allow you to be more resilient and realistic about your expectations.</i></b> For instance, instead of being mad that your flight was cancelled, why not be happy that you have a day off? Why not be happy the last year the meteorologists were right 90% of the time getting you where you needed to go safely. Isn't technology great? Can't we be happy that people care enough about our safety to cancel things that may be dangerous for ourselves or our children?<br />
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Finally, how often are we transferring our OWN frustrations onto other people? If we got hammered with snow, I have a feeling that many of the above people would still be mad...saying things like "How am I supposed to get work done with kids?" or "I'm so tired of this WINTER! When will it be over?" <b>Maybe the truth is that they are frustrated with their own lives and it's easy to take it out on someone else?</b><br />
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When I find myself extremely frustrated it's often about my own frustrations and little about the other person. I remember when I was in therapy after my divorce I was telling my therapist how mad I was at my ex husband and she said, "Are you mad at HIM or are you really mad that you're a single mom and life wasn't supposed to be like this?" That was a huge moment for me. A real AHA moment. I wonder if any of you can identify with this? Sometimes it's easier for us to be mad at someone else than it is about a certain situation or maybe even ourselves?<br />
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How do you feel about expectations? I would love to hear in the comments below!<br />
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Men often get a bad rap when it comes to parenting (and homemaking) but the truth is we can learn a lot from them! <br />
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1. GET SILLY<br />
Not everyone is born knowing how to play with kids. Just because you don't always know how to relate to kids (or play with them) doesn't mean you're not a good parent. Sometimes, we just need to step out of the box and learn a magic trick, make a funny dance or take silly selfies on your phone with your kids. <br />
*If you want more ideas about playing with kids...check out <a href="http://ticklesandtimeouts.blogspot.com/2011/04/focus-friday-how-to-get-your-kids-to.html?spref=pi">How to get kids to play games with you</a><br />
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2. COMPARTMENTALIZE. I think the biggest thing we can learn from men is how to compartmentalize and be in the moment. Men don't often hold resentment, juggle 10 things, stay up at night trying to perfect a situation, or try to be a rock star every moment! It's ok to not make everything on Pinterest or make $5 from consignment. Sometimes we need to cut our losses.<br />
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3. DON'T TAKE THINGS TOO SERIOUSLY<br />
If you're in Target with your 2 year old and she throws a tantrum, don't worry about what everyone else is thinking. Do what you need to do and have a sense of humor about it. All parents have experienced this at one time or another. Chances are everyone is thinking "been there" not "she's a horrible mother!" <i><span style="color: blue;">By the way, those thoughts that say "You're a bad mom"should never come into you're brain! You need to always tell yourself you're an awesome mom, even if you make a mistake!! Be kind to you mama!! </span></i><br />
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4. DON'T TAKE THINGS PERSONALLY<br />
Men don't take things to heart when their child says "I hate you" or "you're the meanest Dad in the world" so why do moms? 99% of the time children say these things as an attempt to manipulate and get in the drivers seat and often we allow it to pull on our heart strings. <br />
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The holidays were great for myself and my family. The first week in January I was lucky enough to travel to CES (Consumer Electronic Show) in Vegas on a business trip. <span style="color: blue;">What the heck does she do? </span>You might ask! I am an administrative assistant/marketing assistant for KT Trade in Exton, PA. KT Trade is a very successful business in Turkey which is now expanding into US markets. I learned a lot on my second business trip! I saw a lot of interesting products and listened to my boss connect with potential business partners and investors. In addition, I learned that traveling for business means you should rush, rush, rush, then stop and sit for long periods of time, rush, rush rush, then sit. It's hilarious to me that when they announce that you can take off your seat belts on the plane for example everyone scurries really fast and stands up then waits!! <span style="color: blue;">Side note: I also find it very interesting that people are so busy with their nose in their tablets that they don't even take time to look around them! I think I was the only person on the plane looking at the Grand Canyon when we were landing! </span><br />
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Sometimes it's hard to believe I was home with the kids just 8 months ago. <span style="color: blue;">Being a stay at home mom is definitely a harder job by the way!!</span> I was missing the kids like crazy but really enjoyed the 65 degree temps and the opportunity to expand my business knowledge at CES. Unfortunately, I lost my Android tablet on the plane when I put it in the pocket of the seat in front of me on the airplane! DOH!<br />
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Well, here we are in the third week of January and this time of year is crazy in the Northeast. November and December are so pretty and fun...holidays parties, pretty lights, and festive activities and then January comes with ice, snow, and sicknesses. It's easy to get depressed this time of year but I really try to look on the bright side!<br />
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What's so bright about Winter you ask??<br />
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Well, for most of us, Winter is the only time that our schedules aren't jammed packed with parties, events, and activities. This means that we have time to <b><span style="color: blue;">just be</span></b>. Sometimes its hard for us to slow down (when we've been moving so fast) but it's important and essential for good health and well being. In today's fast paced world it's so easy to stay busy and never stop and actually think or reflect about what we need and what we want. Michael Hyatt did a great podcast about this called <a href="http://michaelhyatt.com/098-how-to-regain-interior-margin-through-the-practice-of-stillness-podcast.html">How to regain interior margin through the practice of stillness</a>. I also enjoyed reading this post <a href="http://www.sparkpeople.com/resource/wellness_articles.asp?id=341">10 Ways to beat the Winter Blues</a>. If we take the time to really think about what we're doing, eating, and even how we're reacting to things, we can really get a great start to the new year and a better handle on life. Winter is a great time to really think about those New Years Resolutions and goals for creating the life you want (and need).<br />
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As far as Winter activities for the kids, the girls and I have made videos with my smart phone, created obstacle courses, baked cookies, and read a lot of books together. Last week we had my Mom over for dinner and just spent quality time together. Sienna and I had a date at the Caln Roller Rink and it was SOOO fun (and dirt cheap!). I was reliving my childhood memories (that place has not changed in 25 years!!) I also cleaned out my basement and got rid of a lot of things that I really didn't need anymore. Another thing I did was reorganize my budget and I got a great deal for Comcast cable, WIFI, and home phone all for $60.00! Woo hoo! That made me happy! It's amazing what you can find when you take the time to ask yourself how you can do things better! Winter is a great time for that!<br />
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I'm really attempting to embrace the Winter and appreciate it for what it is. What do you like about the Winter? I would love to hear your ideas!<br />
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