Our journey on this earth is a series of lessons and triumphs. We make a lot of great decisions (and many
bad ones) but all the choices that we have made have led us to be the empathetic,
understanding people that we are today. There
is a story going around about a woman regretting that she stayed at home with
her kids and didn’t continue working http://www.today.com/moms/stay-home-mom-i-regret-not-working-6C10388324#stay-home-mom-i-regret-not-working-6C10388324. After I read the article I thought about all
the moms out there that walk around with regrets. Regrets about staying at home, regrets about
working, regrets about staying in an unhealthy marriage, regrets about not
being patient with their children…..and the list goes on and on and on.
What is the point of continuing to hold onto our regrets? If
the reason is that you don’t want to do it again, why not change your ways and
move on? Regrets are burdens- they carry
weight keeping you from moving on to bigger and better things.
Regrets are simply punishments that we place on ourselves. But aren’t we already paying the price of the
mistake we made by not having the outcome that we wanted? Why punish ourselves with regret? If you regret something you did to another
person (like your children) then change your ways today. Replace old behaviors with new ones and teach
your children to live life to the fullest.
Our life experiences make us who we are and our mistakes can
actually be a good thing. Mistakes are
our “lessons learned” and make us grow and become better people. The most successful people have made the
biggest mistakes so I challenge you to embrace your journey that has made you
the person you are and turn your regrets into ‘lessons learned’.
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